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You can disagree with me. That's fine. XD

I told her how I felt beforehand, but I had yet to see if our relationship was progressing, while at the same time trying to rekindle myself by talking it out and being with someone else. That's my view on it. If you do make that decision without thinking twice, you might end up in the same situation you were in in the first place.

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Update: Well,..<sigh> things aren't working out between Susie and I and I'm tired of changing every area of my life to simply 'co-exist.' She (obviously) has a difficult time trusting me (or anyone for that matter.) I realized today though that I changed a LOT of my views/perceptions and sacrificed a lot for her, but in return I didn't really see that much. Maybe some time apart is best now...for both of us. I feel liberated <no, I didn't burn her bras or anything> XD and I think that things are going to be ok...instead of obsessing over it, I feel at peace, so I guess it was 'right.' Anyway, just thought I'd give you guys/gals an update cause I don't want to misrepresent. :D

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We're here for you man...

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Good question.

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Going to 'talk' about things tomorrow (Saturday) afternoon...let ya know how things go ;)

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Good luck...:D

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You can do it!

=D

Seriously though, good luck in that. We'll ALL be wishing you the best of it.

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Devoting your whole life to someone and then finding out they secretly hate you or just plain don't like you has got to be pretty horrible. :/

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"Cheating" I can understand the whole ordeal as ive been on both sides of cheating it was bad it hurt both of us. But we worked it out addmited our wrongs are still together and stronger than we have ever been, (i wouldnt recomend it as a way to strengthen relationships) so thats my statement.

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Meh...I did it. Noes ballons falling from teh ceiling or anything yet tho.

Still waiting to see what's gonna happen.

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Final update:

Well, Susie and I FINALLY called it quits ---> 4 years!

I got tired of being on a leash... 0_0 YaRLY!

And I gave her the shock collar back too XD!

Seriously: I've learned SOOOOOOOOO much! I've become a better person through it all; but all-in-all I'm actually relieved. We are going to TRY to be friends. We go to the same church, know a lot of the same peeps...etc. Umm... not sure what else to write here folks.

One things for sure though: don't feel sorry for meh! XD

Reasoniamalive = fresh meat! J/K J/K!!! LOL!

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Lol! Whoever said anything bout feelin sorry for ya

You're a good friend so I feel sorry for her for losin ya ;)

(No, this post is an exception because i'm not kidding in it)

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:) TY Slider

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XD

Well, live and learn. I'm glad you made the decision you felt was best. ^^;

And, whoa, we have fresh mod meat on the forum. Who wants it? XD

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Sure, I'll take it, and, Reason, we're all proud of you, I bet it was a hard choice to make...