Cheated on by girl...
 

I just found out that, once again i've been betrayed by a girl. I am caring loving, romantic, spontaneous, trustworthy, honest and everything a girl could want. She practically loved me, but then she got with her ex boyfriend, who is also my friend. Wow. I need someone to talk to. you can even call me 740-804-8396. I feel so alone.

Re: Cheated on by girl...
 

Wow i'm so Sorry Dude i know How you Feel:(

Re: Cheated on by girl...
 

That's just horrible...I be there If u need someone to talk to. :p

Re: Cheated on by girl...
 

Time for some tough love.

It's a female. It's gonna happen. I'm not saying that it doesn't suck, because it does. I've been there a few times myself. But that's just how life is sometimes. You gotta get over it and move the hell on. If you dwell on the things that bring you down, then you aren't gonna be worth anything to anyone. The time that you're spending dwelling is time that could be put to practical use such as finding someone else worth your time. No, I'm not trying to be demeaning to you or talk down on you. As I've said, I know this sucks. But really, you can't let something like this beat you up. Man up, kick this ordeal in the face, and show her that you're fine without her. Because in the end, you're just letting her win.

And that my friend, is just the honest to God truth.

Re: Cheated on by girl...
 

Thank you guys so much, but there is a new twist. My friend lied about the hotel incident, because he had a suspicion that I was getting with his ex-girlfriend. But now, she had cancer a LONGGG time ago like when I first met her when my friend was dating her and it was going into recession, but just last week they found something new out. Something not good and she just wanted to be friends because she didn't want to hurt me because she is going to be in and out of hospitals and will bruise easily and is embarrassed about the whole ordeal. I told her I would always be there for her, it's so hard for me to find someone I like and she is one of the few that meets what i've always needed. She is thinking she is overreacting and is willing to keep the relationship up but it's still a bit rocky. It's just insane. I can't let her go, but I wonder if it would be for the best?

Re: Cheated on by girl...
 

I can't say specifically, exactly, what you SHOULD do.

Just do what your heart tells you, no matter how much it may hurt. Sometimes, there is really no logical answer when it comes to situations like this. Separate the logic from your feelings, even though it may seem irrational. And if it sounds too crazy for you to handle, just go with the flow of things. See where the events take you. See where the people important to you right now take you.