Don't worry, I'm watching the thread carefully, and am sure Shadowheart is too
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I'm a member of a couple of forums where this subject would have been closed down right from the first post, but believe its something that needs to be out in the open and not hidden away and only whispered about behind closed doors. Things like this do need to be talked about.
If people go past the line, they will hear about it and if the thread does degenerate, it will be closed, but for now, its ok.