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**Phoenix Flame** · 06-04-2008, 01:58 PM

*First Reply! D=

J/K Doc. ^^; Sorry...just had to release some of that tension.

<3

There's two things I have to say...one I'll say here, the other is better reserved for a PM methinks.

You ARE your own person. You're NOT and you don't have to feel responsible for this other person. I know you DO, and you take it upon yourself to genuinely care and love him. You already stated the problem in a nutshell when you said that you try, try, and try to give more of something you never really had in the first place. Although it may be difficult for you to accept, you NEED to put distance between the two of you before something really drastic DOES happen and one or both of you are either hurt too much to lead a 'normal' life, or you both end up dead. ;__; I love you and don't want to see you hurt, BUT I also love you enough to give you my honest opinion in this. Take time away - YOU'VE NEVER EVEN BEEN OUT OF COLORADO FOR GOD SAKES!!! Come crash in Chicago for a while. = D X3

I'll PM ya the other stuff. <3

06-04-2008, 01:58 PM	#2
Phoenix Flame Go Umbarbar do my bidding Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: By myself. It's lonely ;-; Posts: 3,044	Re: I'm being REALLY selfish for posting this, but... *First Reply! D= J/K Doc. ^^; Sorry...just had to release some of that tension. <3 There's two things I have to say...one I'll say here, the other is better reserved for a PM methinks. You ARE your own person. You're NOT and you don't have to feel responsible for this other person. I know you DO, and you take it upon yourself to genuinely care and love him. You already stated the problem in a nutshell when you said that you try, try, and try to give more of something you never really had in the first place. Although it may be difficult for you to accept, you NEED to put distance between the two of you before something really drastic DOES happen and one or both of you are either hurt too much to lead a 'normal' life, or you both end up dead. ;__; I love you and don't want to see you hurt, BUT I also love you enough to give you my honest opinion in this. Take time away - YOU'VE NEVER EVEN BEEN OUT OF COLORADO FOR GOD SAKES!!! Come crash in Chicago for a while. = D X3 I'll PM ya the other stuff. <3 __________________ Fight, if there is something to fight for. Never give in, or give up - but ALWAYS give. Choose your battles wisely. You only get one shot at life. Follow your heart.