[Hydra]

You just have to make him sit down and talk about it. He's got to be aware of the consequences, and what's at stake. We guys don't really think about that all the time, but we think about taking the pain away, and he's just probably numbing the pain. And everytime the numbing goes away, he just goes to numb it again, right? It's not the right thing to do, but it's hard to face your problems.

Just have a long talk with him, and consider everything. Your lives, your relationship, your future, your children. You'll get something straight. Good luck. =D