gee..
lookz weird havin teh wize guy o'the forum askin fo' help, a'ight, srsly:
i dunno, IMHO, odds r really against it PF! first there's the past between u guyz, then it's up to youz if u
really wanna b "just friends", coz otherwise u might endup hurtin the both of u n who knows who else; not sure what ur current status iz, but if u got a fiancee id say definetively consult her too, or at least let her know what u're thinkin.
i just cleared the situation from mah POV, thought i wont advise u for it or against it (real helpfull i know!) n im doin that coz im not a pshychic + i wouldnt wanna screw up what i dont know enough about + it's all up to u in the end!
but i'll say this; it's a VERY delicate matter (past, fiancee, n so on) so if u'll go ahead with it then be REALLY sensitive & non imposing about it!
that's teh best i can come up with, so GL
edited: or better yet here's a thought; if u're gonna be friends again -even if distant ones- there'll be lots o'stuff u'll need to get over n handle im sure so just ask urself this before goin forth with it: "Can I handle this? is it worth it? can SHE handle it too? -well that one u can ask her- can EVERYBODY ELSE handle it?"
THEN u make that decision
