Same Sex Marrige

[Gackt Camui]

Thats okay and I totally get what you are saying. And you're right obviously people are not all gay and bi. I just wish the people that don't like it could maybe open up their eyes once in awhile and see these people are human beings too and they deserve the same amount of repsect just like the rest of us do.

[Fawkes Lament]

This is a bit of a personal interest for me, seeing as my sister is bi. She is in love with her girlfriend through and through, plain and simple. They plan to get married, and I have no objections.

Also, a LOT of people think that my brother (See Avathar's Avatar for details) is bi. He's not, and he's really cool about it. I don't mind that people think it, and it'd be cool if he did go bi in the future.

SO yes, same sex marriage should be allowed. It's an expression of love.

[Gackt Camui]

Yeah I know. It seems like we all agree on the samething.

[Fawkes Lament]

And most of the people who vote against it is because of their religion.

[blackstar]

Originally Posted by Gackt Camui

Thats okay and I totally get what you are saying. And you're right obviously people are not all gay and bi. I just wish the people that don't like it could maybe open up their eyes once in awhile and see these people are human beings too and they deserve the same amount of repsect just like the rest of us do.

Hell Yeah ;res thats what alot of people in this world need to learn a little simple ;res

and to Fawkes thats one reason why religion sickens me.

[Gackt Camui]

I don't have a set religion. I have my beliefs don't get me wrong. But I don't come out and say, "yes I am this or yes I am that." Because I don't like either, for one of those reasons that they are against gays and bi's and I find it pathetic. You know they say god loved everybody...but then you have these people saying its wrong, thats not what god wanted us to be. So you gotta question...

[blackstar]

Ask questions to everything and be critical/reflected in both ways. And never supress youself if you don't like who you really are. Stay true to yourself. You will not find your true to life written down in a BOOK!!!! -Mustis of Dimmu Borgir
As I said in the good advice thread but i beleive it applies to what you just said.

[Gackt Camui]

Yeah it totally does! Have you guys ever seen Borat? Where he's talking to that old man and they are talking about gays...and "Borat" says they are trying to get them hanged in his country, and the old man, who is american said the samething is happening here! That shows you how pathetic people that are against homosexual are.

[blackstar]

Thats sad very very sad i have a few good friends who are gay. My myself im bi and one of my dearst friends ive ever had is a lesbian. So its personal for me too.

[Darkreno]

hmmmm? this is a very sensitive debate . me n marius were kinda wondering when 2 approach this thread . cuz well she's bi curious as well. well its better i explain she has been struggling with D.I.D(dissociave identity disorder) since she was 14.do to a terrible car accident n head injury she's 28 now, n to make a longer story short. her alter self prefers women over men. it never bothered me we've known each other 3 years b4 we innitially hooked up 3 year ago. like i said in another thread i loved her the first day i saw her. n yes we r not legaly married cuz a certain ex-lover spread wrong gossip 2 churches in town so we don get married n he used her sexual preference 2 make it work. n we don care what people think we love each other n we don need a piece of paper or no religious approval 2 remind us or tell us how we truly feel for one another. marius' alter self is dormant from what her therapists said. n marius is strong n loving , n im proud of her no matter what straight or bi, short or tall, fat or skinny ,herself or not. she's my soulmate n i cherish n thank god everyday im with her. now don get me wrong even though we're going through all the crap her ex has put us through we both have not stopped believing in god. 4 it is only 4 him 2 judge us no one else. so there u have my opinion love is free n people who love eachother should be able 2 marry wether they're gay or straight. ;a04

[Marius]

thankx D.R , i find myself saying that 2 u a lot as of lately. well yes everything he said is true n all. i must also input everyone else that i have no regrets.im the kind of person who follows my heart no matter what gender. love is a beautiful thing thats not always easy 2 find. n u never really kno where ur heart may lead u in the future. it takes a lot 2 really kno when u finally find ur true hearts desire. it took a very patient n kind heart like D.R's 4 me to truly see its ok 2 b who i am. so with that i leave saying i believe everyone should b able to marry who they truly love no matter what gender. unfortunetly some of us don't have that right gay or not.

[blackstar]

WOW amazing story. Honestly very inspireing but said again to make a very valid point that people can use peoples sexual prefrence against them and it works its very sad really.

[Gackt Camui]

It is sad. I don't put up with it when I hear it. I give my own dad hell when he starts in.

[forever yours]

I really don't know. It dosen't matter so far as marriage goes, but what happens when the couple want a child. yeah they could adopt one, but think of the childs future. 1. he/she could and prolly will be picked on in school about having two dads/moms. 2. When the child sees that almost everyone elses parents are a straight couple dad/mom, the child will prolly wonder what is wrong with his parents. But, the child may just take the cool route and be like, "yeah i'm so special that i have two daddies!, none of you guys have that!" But as far as gay marriage goes, i don't really have anything against it. But at the same time i do. did i make any sense???

[Darkreno]

nope . u confused me a bit there hon. i don think gay couples would b bad parents at all. not saying that u said that of corse.its just sad to see straight couples who have kids be more likely the ones to bail on them. ya kno.