Im rly confused here.

[Doctor]

I like the point that Reason made. You CANNOT and SHOULD NOT just forget about something like this, because this is a situation that you can grow, and learn from....I've been through some experiences myself that I thought I would never get anything out of, and I wanted to just wallow in my own misery. But we're all human...we all go through these things nearly the same way, even when you don't realize it.

But I'm just a teenager...I couldn't POSSIBLY know what it really takes to keep a relationship together, and a strong one like you and D.R. have.

You should follow everyone else's advice, and keep this in mind; if you're going to get over it, and if you guys are going to forgive each other, do it for your children, as well, if you really do love them and each other....(I don't know how many kids you have, so I'm guessing. XP )

And I'm sorry that I had to disagree with you, blackstar...but yeah, you can't just forget about things like this and pretend that they never happened. =P