How have you asked another out? - Page 2

**Phoenix Flame** · 03-03-2007, 04:52 AM

WTF = When The F;cen

Like Nao! ;ang

;clu

Or j00 get HIM ^^

Avathar · 03-03-2007, 10:00 AM

O_o How did I ask a girl out the first time..

I don't remember ; ;

But usually, both me and the girl are really flirty, when it comes to a point after the idle banter, where I blatantly say "I love you."

Not that that's awkward! ..It rather works as a cute strike. o.o But I say it so naturally, not forced at all. And afterwards a hug and a kiss, and I ask her out.

So posing the question itself is really easy. I don't think I ever have any nervous points at all. I'm way too chilled out most of the time to have any nerves like that.

Doctor · 03-04-2007, 07:03 AM

Hmmmmm....*thinks long and hard*

I've always had mixed feelings about asking someone out...it's certainly not the easiest thing in the world to do. @_@

Often times, I have tried to make friends with the person first, to get some sort of friendship going, so that once we were really together, we would know what we had in common, and we would have more things to talk about.

Unfortunately, this method hasn't always worked...

But I can still say it's the only way I've made my way toward asking someone out, and I would rather just stick with that. I think it's better to get to know the person first before you try anything like that.

Axel · 06-22-2007, 12:34 PM

Women just me, it doesnt matter what I do. I finally get a then come to find out she evidently has two other boyfriends!

dappa · 07-01-2007, 01:04 PM

I asked someone out by email recently because I didn't have another way to contact her plus I didn't know where she lives.

**Phoenix Flame** · 07-01-2007, 02:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dappa

I asked someone out by email recently because I didn't have another way to contact her plus I didn't know where she lives.

How did you two meet? Where you two friends first or did you meet by happenstance?

Also, if you don't mind the curiosity streak I have... what became of the invitation? ^_^

dappa · 07-01-2007, 07:11 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by reasoniamalive

How did you two meet? Where you two friends first or did you meet by happenstance?

Also, if you don't mind the curiosity streak I have... what became of the invitation? ^_^

She was a friend I used to work with who I hadn't seen for like 6 months but cause all I had was her email address and no phone number I had to email her.

As for the invitation it went all pear shaped, for reasons unknown the day before the actual date was gonna happen she started ignoring me on the phone and has been blanking me ever since, strange eh?

I'm thinking of walking into her workplace to confront her.

**Phoenix Flame** · 07-02-2007, 05:17 AM

Meh...IMO you should give her some time....say - at least a month; then try her again.

IDK if I would confront her right away...you're just asking to be cussed-out for 'stalking.'

>_> Not that you are - but geez....women nowadays. 0.0!

dappa · 07-02-2007, 05:33 PM

Its alright now. Today I walked into her workplace and spent a few hours with her in her workplace and I walked her home.

Turned out she had some genuine reasons for not contacting me and I didn't need to confront her as she was kinda relieved I had shown up.

**Phoenix Flame** · 07-03-2007, 05:03 AM

Awesome!

Shinra Soldier 1 · 08-27-2007, 11:34 AM

I would say hey, do you wanna go see this movie or do something later? I mean peolpe are so afraid to do these things, not saying anyone here is, but you just have to be blunt as possible. It's not hard to face your problems when you come face to face.

03-03-2007, 04:52 AM	#16
Phoenix Flame Go Umbarbar do my bidding Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: By myself. It's lonely ;-; Posts: 3,044	Re: How have you asked another out? WTF = When The F;cen Like Nao! ;ang ;clu Or j00 get HIM ^^ __________________ Fight, if there is something to fight for. Never give in, or give up - but ALWAYS give. Choose your battles wisely. You only get one shot at life. Follow your heart. Last edited by reasoniamalive; 03-03-2007 at 04:55 AM.

03-04-2007, 07:03 AM	#18
Doctor Highwind Captain Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Hulle Granz Cathedral Age: 33 Posts: 1,172	Re: How have you asked another out? Hmmmmm....thinks long and hard I've always had mixed feelings about asking someone out...it's certainly not the easiest thing in the world to do. @_@ Often times, I have tried to make friends with the person first, to get some sort of friendship going, so that once we were really together, we would know what we had in common, and we would have more things to talk about. Unfortunately, this method hasn't always worked... But I can still say it's the only way I've made my way toward asking someone out, and I would rather just stick with that. I think it's better to get to know the person first before you try anything like that. __________________ 'All games contain the idea of death.' --The Lords and the New Creatures

06-22-2007, 12:34 PM	#19
Axel -The Free Thinker- Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Far away... Age: 32 Posts: 179	Re: How have you asked another out? Women just me, it doesnt matter what I do. I finally get a then come to find out she evidently has two other boyfriends! __________________ "No matter how deep the darkness, a light shines within."

07-01-2007, 01:04 PM	#20
dappa Master Summoner Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Zanarkand Ruins (ok I live in the UK) Age: 46 Posts: 1,778	Re: How have you asked another out? I asked someone out by email recently because I didn't have another way to contact her plus I didn't know where she lives. __________________ The Fantasy is never truly final

07-02-2007, 05:17 AM	#23
Phoenix Flame Go Umbarbar do my bidding Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: By myself. It's lonely ;-; Posts: 3,044	Re: How have you asked another out? Meh...IMO you should give her some time....say - at least a month; then try her again. IDK if I would confront her right away...you're just asking to be cussed-out for 'stalking.' >_> Not that you are - but geez....women nowadays. 0.0! __________________ Fight, if there is something to fight for. Never give in, or give up - but ALWAYS give. Choose your battles wisely. You only get one shot at life. Follow your heart.

07-02-2007, 05:33 PM	#24
dappa Master Summoner Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Zanarkand Ruins (ok I live in the UK) Age: 46 Posts: 1,778	Re: How have you asked another out? Its alright now. Today I walked into her workplace and spent a few hours with her in her workplace and I walked her home. Turned out she had some genuine reasons for not contacting me and I didn't need to confront her as she was kinda relieved I had shown up. __________________ The Fantasy is never truly final

07-03-2007, 05:03 AM	#25
Phoenix Flame Go Umbarbar do my bidding Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: By myself. It's lonely ;-; Posts: 3,044	Re: How have you asked another out? Awesome! __________________ Fight, if there is something to fight for. Never give in, or give up - but ALWAYS give. Choose your battles wisely. You only get one shot at life. Follow your heart.

08-27-2007, 11:34 AM	#26
Shinra Soldier 1 Chocobo Jockey Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Chillicothe, Ohio Age: 35 Posts: 203	Re: How have you asked another out? I would say hey, do you wanna go see this movie or do something later? I mean peolpe are so afraid to do these things, not saying anyone here is, but you just have to be blunt as possible. It's not hard to face your problems when you come face to face. __________________ Elite Unit Alpha

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