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Originally Posted by Doctor

Well, sometimes we all must learn to forgive, even if we can never forget.

Like when my love ran off with someone else, awhile back, without my knowledge. I felt devastated, and I still ask myself, "why," but it doesn't really do anything. I still cry sometimes, and that's okay, even though it won't bring my love back to me.

I'm not even thinking about moving on, or lingering, or any of that. I'm just trying not to think about it, period.

I guess my point is...it's good not to hang around your own sadness, your past mistakes. It's better to live in the present.

Agreed. But its good to remember and dwell sometimes but the past is the past and nothing else.