Broken Hearts

[Yoko Kurama]

Well, I decided to make this thread for everyone who has had a broken heart... I know that this is really random, but I need to let this out...

My boyfriend, Kris, has been lying to me... I came out of the closet to my parents so that I wouldn't have to hide about him anymore... Kris lives in Utah... I came out to my parents just to find out that Kris is actually a girl, and has been lying to me the entire time... I now embody my parents greatest hate... Being gay... And in the process, I have lost what means the most to me...

Any similar stories to tell?

 

[kb-sama]

well mines not as bad as that,and i'm sorry man *huges*


i'm in love with my best friend,and she's in love with my other best friend,i've know her for like 8 years and i had my chaneg to tell her but i didn't,i then MUCH to my distest she fell in love with him,so for the past 365 days my mind and heart have been all fucked up.....



werid to see kb sad,eh?

 

[Yoko Kurama]

Well, the thing is, I'm not even mad at her for it... My mom doesn't understand not mad at her... She's a nice girl, with a good heart, but she just made a huge mistake... I guess that's why I'm not mad at her...

KB, your situation sucks pretty bad.. But I know how that is as well... Though most think that I am to young to fully understand some things about love, but I have experienced more pain than most adults, though I am only 16...

 

[Doctor]

I feel your pain, Yoko...I'm sorry such a thing has happened to you...even though your partner lied to you, I'm glad that you were abl eto keep your cool and not be too upset at her...I'm sure she's really a wonderful person, and she loved you so much, she couldn't bear to lose you if she had told you the truth...she probably should've told you sooner, but things like this happen, and you can't change anything now. All you can do now is try to forgive her for the lies she has told you, for the sake of loving you.

I have plenty of heartbreak stories to tell myself, but I don't feel at ease enough to disclose them to anyone right now...I've been trying to recover from the pain for so long, I must try to fully heal myself before I feel like I can discuss these things..

Still, I thought it would be best for me to share my thoughts on your pain, Yoko...I truly am sorry that had to happen..

Also, for you to tell your parents about your sexuality...I thought that very, very courageous of you, and hopefully they can become more open-minded people by learning from this experience..

 

[blackstar]

We can only hope your right Faust.

 

[Yoko Kurama]

Thanks for that Faust... I really needed someone to say that... I just find it odd that I'm not mad at her in the slightest... I would be here if she ever needed me... I let her know that I was upset, but I also let her know that I still cared... One of my friends made me cry the other day... When she found out that I came out to my parents, she walked up to me, hugged me, then said "I am so proud of you"... I couldn't help but cry... Am I too overly sensitive?

 

[blackstar]

No it just means you have a heart.

 

[Hydra]

I guess the Doctor did what I was going to do. o_o;

She nailed it too.

But yeah. I have a few horrendous break-up stories myself, and like Faust, I don't really feel like talking about them yet. You sound pretty strong willed already, and it'll only fluxuate with age and experience. Good and bad. :3

It's terribly unlucky about "Kris", but hey, live and learn, y'know? I'm surprised how calm you are about it, frankly. That's tough for most people to do.

 

[Yoko Kurama]

Well, I'm kinda weird... I guess that I expect the worst, but always have a positive attitude... I know that's kinda weird... I don't really know why though... I just get over stuff easily... I don't know how...

 

[Hydra]

Well, I'm kinda weird... I guess that I expect the worst, but always have a positive attitude... I know that's kinda weird... I don't really know why though... I just get over stuff easily... I don't know how...

You're lucky to have that. :3

It's a rare thing. Not much may phase you, but it can get you into some tough situations sometimes. XD

Oh well. For the most part, it's good. =D

 

[Bonesplitter]

dud
im so sorry that happend, but i kindof that he was a she when i heard her voice
on the phone that night

well i hope the best of look to you

 

[Yoko Kurama]

Yeah, I should have known better, and I think that deep down, I knew it was a lie... But, ah well, life goes on... I talk to her on IM and we are just like friends now... As if thats all we ever were...

 

[Bonesplitter]

well if it happend to me well...
i dont think i could be friends with someone who did that to me

 

[Doctor]

Well, sometimes we all must learn to forgive, even if we can never forget.

Like when my love ran off with someone else, awhile back, without my knowledge. I felt devastated, and I still ask myself, "why," but it doesn't really do anything. I still cry sometimes, and that's okay, even though it won't bring my love back to me.

I'm not even thinking about moving on, or lingering, or any of that. I'm just trying not to think about it, period.

I guess my point is...it's good not to hang around your own sadness, your past mistakes. It's better to live in the present.

 

[blackstar]

Well, sometimes we all must learn to forgive, even if we can never forget.

Like when my love ran off with someone else, awhile back, without my knowledge. I felt devastated, and I still ask myself, "why," but it doesn't really do anything. I still cry sometimes, and that's okay, even though it won't bring my love back to me.

I'm not even thinking about moving on, or lingering, or any of that. I'm just trying not to think about it, period.

I guess my point is...it's good not to hang around your own sadness, your past mistakes. It's better to live in the present.

Agreed. But its good to remember and dwell sometimes but the past is the past and nothing else.

 

[Yoko Kurama]

Well said blackstar... Bonesplitter, you have a good point... But, I am very forgiving... A little too much so I suppose...

 

[Shinra Soldier 1]

Well this story of yours is just plain INSANE! So then, are you actually gay, or what? I mean did you like guys before Kris? This is just extraordinarily extreme circumstances that you're in. It'll make you stronger though, hopefully your parents will come around