Love?

[Hydra]

No, not like that. XD

Spend time with them, and make it a growing relationship before you admit your feelings to her. Or she admits them to you one. Mine was a little complicatied. XXD

 

[richboywonder]

i can't do that.i might get slaped.and i don't need a girlfriend.

 

[Hydra]

It all depends on how you act around them. You can't be afraid to take risks to impress a woman. Unless it's like, something big, like spending over 500 dollars to get a girl to notice you. XD

If a girl likes you for you, and you don't have to act different around them, you might want to consider a relationship. I have someone to put up with me, so I'm very happy. XD

 

[Luis]

Typical comment coming from a boy of your age. Don't worry, you'll grow up xD

 

[richboywonder]

and if they want me to buy them something i can't do that i have too much things to buy.and nobody even notices me.it's like i'm invisible.i had people come up to me and say are you in my class.when i am and they never see me even if they were staring right at me.

 

[Hydra]

Do you take the time to stand out and actually let them notice you? I realized in my teen days, women don't notice you if you just stand there. You've got to do something. Well, except for my first year in high school. XD

 

[richboywonder]

ah,just forget it.

 

[Hydra]

You'll understand soon. ^_^

 

[Phoenix Flame]

You asked...this is your only warning:




Love is a choice...you don't always FEEL like loving a friend or a family member. Sometimes we get emotions mixed up with love. There is a reason behind that and other causes of confusion due to "love." This is what I mean...

1) Phileo - brotherly love. "I love him like family."
2) Eros - from Greek (where we get the English word for Erotic) This is one-sided, intimate or sexual "love."
3) Agape - unconditional love (also known as 'true' love.) This is the type of love "He" has for us (as Hydra illuded to above.)
You can gather why everyone is confused as to what love is when we have been subject to different "types" of love. In other words, there were once different words to describe what someone meant by the way in which they loved up - either as friends, erotically, or unconditionally - which have been lost into a neverending pit that is now called only "love."
"I love my dog." "I love my house." I love you." "I love you too..." [kinda] I used to get so perturbed at life when it gave me lemons, but this simple truth helped me to understand what love - in all it's forms - means and is. I believe love is a choice. God doesn't have to love us - but, for some reason He chooses to offer His love - although we sometimes don't even acknowledge Him. "Rain falls on the just and the unjust."
- 1st John 4:8 "Whoever does not love [agape] does not know God, because God is love [agape]." NIV

I also agree with Zeromus_X when he wrote that love cannot exist w/o hate. At least in this fallen world. Like Yin and Yang, light and dark, hot and cold...I would not know the latter existed w/o having experienced the first.

 

[murkywatersinusall]

There's actually no such thing as a cold heart. If you wait around for it it'll happen ,but only if you want it to.

 

[Seyluv]

Yeah i guess...yeah i don't have any feeling for this guy any more. he was the reason why i posted this post.

 

[~SapphireStar~]

I thought I was in love and I was told he loved me, but that changed. He no longer loved me as a lover, but as a friend. Basically I no longer believe in love cause to me in this day and age, it just doesnt excist.

 

[dappa]

I would like to be in love but have in the past thought I have been in love and haven't.

I would love to meet the right person and fall in love.

 

[Seyluv]

I kinda wish I was in love again, but now I don't know. All those feeling I had for this guy is all gone. When I see him nothing happens...

 

[Avathar]

Love is the drug that keeps me going running smoothly.

 

[Yoko Kurama]

The definition of hate is the special kind of love you give to someone you don't like. Love is mysterious. It makes you do things you normally wouldn't. You have to take risks. You can get your heart broken, you can get it unbroken. But for me I found love again, but my last love has left a huge hole. My last love told me that the three years we dated meant nothing. Actually, my last love said that the last three years were bullshit to be specific. I just don't see how someone can lie about love for three years...

 

[Seyluv]

Yeah, the guy before him did the same, but then when I met him my hole was kinda filled back up. Now it is still kinda torned, but by both of them.

 

[Miyu_]

Yep, Yoko found love again!! -smiles- And his love promises that she'll never let anything happen to their love. It means the world to her. She never wants to lose him. She loves him bunches and will never stop, even after the day she dies!! <3

 

[Seyluv]

I wish I could have that feeling I had once again. I was so happy and stuff. A feeling unlike any other feeling I felt. But, it is gone, kinda fell unfulll inside or something. I not very good at expressing what I feel inside.

 

[Cloud101]

Yeah I know what you mean. Your scared of what the conciquences of opening up to somebody will be, so you tell yourself that it's better if you don't, and you believe that.